TAMARA THE BRAVE
Power To The Chooser
SHAMANIC MENTORSHIP FOR WOMEN DONE OUTSOURCING THEIR LIVES
Reclaiming Power.
Rebuilding Instinct.
Returning to the Root.
For the woman whose life is starting to feel like it was built to someone else's plans, and feels too expensive to dismantle.
You don't have to tear it down. You have to go to the root.
This is what's possible: home in your body, trusting your own instinct before you need proof, no longer negotiating who you are to keep the peace.
If you're done treating your own becoming like a job description complete with KPIs... if the books and the therapy and the circles got you some awareness, but actual transformation still hasn't landed... apply. The patterns don't unravel on their own.
A shamanic mentor and sovereignty guide with two decades of practice, for women done outsourcing their lives and ready to stop shrinking to fit.
I'm Tamara.
I'm not a life coach. I'm a guide through the fire of transformation, for women whose lives are blowing up because their wild, unmet truth is clawing its way to the surface, ready to land back in their own bodies and stay there, no matter what comes.
My signature approach, Power To The Chooser, moves through reclaiming the power of your instinct, stabilising self-trust, and anchoring you in your internal authority: that part of you that knows, that sees, that no longer waits for permission.
Women are already powerful.
They don't need me to hand them anything. I'm a provocateur, here to surface the thread of truth already alive in their body, and back it with the courage to act.
It's not just a hashtag. It's the whole practice.
We're the women who are done calling ourselves a work in progress, done abandoning ourselves to keep the peace. This is a revolution, not a solo practice. And revolutions need each other.
I was raised inside a high-control religion and a home life built on coercive control. I left at 18, started asking questions, and haven't stopped. Three decades of rites of passage, initiations, trainings, and death and rebirth cycles later, I cracked the shell of a life built on forced obedience and burned down everything that wasn't mine, and built something that's finally my own.
The women who've walked this path with me have gone on to blow open their careers, deepen relationships they thought were already maxed out, and start making decisions from their own inner compass instead of everyone else's approval.
I teach power because I've lived what it means to have none.
My body had other plans early. A serious illness as a teenager was the first time listening to it stopped being optional. I didn't fully get the lesson then.
I spent years after that building a career in luxury media and brand, the kind of career that looks like proof you made it. Ignored my body again, until burnout took the decision out of my hands entirely. I left when staying stopped being physically possible. No plan. No soft landing.
I bought a company once. Ignored every sign that it wasn't mine to keep, until it came apart and took everything I'd built with it. Then the rebuild started again.
I've left jobs. I've left relationships when they stopped being true, before I had any idea what came next.
Now I live in the forest, barefoot most days.
These days, I trust my instinct the first time I hear it. I book the flight. I cancel the catch-up. I apply to the mentorship. I don't wait for the second signal, and I don't need to explain why, even to myself.
Redefining what reclamation of power looks like, and who has access to it (spoiler: everybody).
We're done asking permission and we're just getting started.
Welcome to the revolution...
glad you made it.
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PODCAST GUEST
I love conversations that go somewhere. Have me on your podcast for a conversation about inner authority, energetic mastery, rites of passage, women growing all the way up, toxic shame, truth telling, and what it takes to stay fully home in your body when life asks more of you.
I’m particularly interested in the woman who can tell the truth without needing a villain, hold the consequences of that truth, and resist the urge to collapse afterwards to make everybody else comfortable.
SPEAKER
I speak about the places where personal transformation meets culture, power and the way we live together. Recent topics include What Makes a Woman Dangerous?, inner authority, the energetics of female archetypes, rites of passage, self abandonment, mature power, and what becomes possible when a woman no longer needs permission to trust what she knows.
My talks are designed to provoke recognition, open conversation and leave people thinking about themselves differently.
TEACHER
Bring me into your retreat to facilitate an experience that takes the work out of the head and into the body. I offer teaching, ritual and experiential processes around energetic mastery, somatic awareness, boundaries and consent, truth telling, rites of passage, archetypal work, self authority and threshold moments.
Sessions can be created specifically for the intention of your retreat, from a focused workshop or ritual through to a deeper half day experience.
What’s the hidden pattern running your operating system?
Stop looping in old stories. Name the unconscious strategy that protects you... and what it costs you.
This is not your average quiz.
It’s a call to radical self-recognition.
Ready for the truth?